Bob the Drag Queen, a former RuPaul’s Drag Race champion, is frank about his love life. The drag queen previously admitted to being in a polyamorous relationship with two men: Jacob Ritts, a video editor, and Ezra Michel, a musician. On November 13, 2020, he released a 31-minute YouTube video titled ‘My Two Lovers,’ in which he discussed his polyamorous relationship, as well as his boyfriends, jealousy, and dating.
“We’re not a throuple,” Bob stated in the video, referring to his relationship as distinct from that of fellow Drag Race star Derrick Berry. “They’re in this relationship where they’re all together.”
Bob said that his lovers, Ritts and Michel, were not in a relationship.
Bob the Drag Queen’s boyfriend Ezra Michel is a musician.
Michel is a musician that wants to be addressed with pronouns such as he, him, and his. In June 2021, he released his most recent single, Girl Baby, directed by Bob. The latter made his directing debut with the video. Furthermore, the song told the tale of an AFAB youngster growing into their nonbinary identity and obtaining parental acceptance, as performed by trans celebrities Gottmik and Laith Ashley.
“I think I was just fantasizing about, okay, if I was a parent and I wasn’t knowledgeable about transness, but I loved my kid so much, and they were struggling, and they were going through it, and they didn’t have the language to explain to me what was going on with them — and then I was stressed, and I was scared, and I just wanted them to survive.”
Other songs by Michel include ‘Double Double (Top Surgery Song)’ and ‘Man of My Dreams.’
Ezra Michel and Bob the Drag Queen met on Instagram.
The rapper previously confirmed to INTO that he and Bob had been dating for two years. Similarly, in an August 2021 interview with Out Front, Michel said that the two met on Instagram after Bob contacted him after viewing his “slutty video.” “We met because I uploaded a lewd video of myself leaping onto a sofa in a jockstrap on Instagram,” he said.
“‘This is my new fixation,’ he remarked, and I quote. Then I told her she could have it. The rest is history. He then asked me to his hotel room, and the rest is history.”
During the interview, Michel also stated that he was not dating Ritts and was not in a relationship while noting that Bob was dating him as well as Ritts. The couple’s romance is still going strong, as seen by their social media posts. For example, in his November 13 Instagram post, the singer-songwriter revealed a sequence of the pair’s photos — both uploaded for selfies and single portrait shots. In the last image of the slide, they had an intimate moment as Bob rested his head on Michel’s shoulder.