Creating a fun and fulfilling sex life—and giving the best sexy gifts—requires generosity, thoughtfulness, and a dedication to pleasure. What better way to demonstrate those qualities than by buying a sexy gift for someone you adore? Aside from the obvious nice-to-be-naughty aspect, sexual pleasure is a powerful form of self-care—and we could all use more pleasure in our lives after everything we’ve been through in the past couple years.
Whether you’re a vibrator connoisseur or a nervous novice, we’ve got the best sexy gifts primed to light up anyone’s holiday. As an author of sexuality books and a long-time sex toy reviewer with hundreds of toys in my collection, I have strong feelings about sex products, to say the least. Below, I’ve curated the best sexy gift ideas for what to give a person in your life who deserves to unwind and feel good—whether that person is your partner, your bestie, or even yourself. If you’re still at a loss and want to take more of a sexy sampler approach, consider a sexy advent calendar.
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